“Hey, you need to study harder, any way you are not fair enough to be married off easily.”
Once my friend pulled up a scarf on her head to protect herself from the sun saying she could get a tan. Other girls, who followed her immediately commented, “You are already black, how dark can you get?” Followed by a sadistic laugh. (This happened in third standard.)
I have never understood the obsession we Indians have with fair skin.
Being Indians, why do we want to look pale?
If you study the geographical placement of India, you’ll notice that it lies exactly on the equator. Which means, most of the land is affected by the heat of the sun. In simpler words, India is a tropical country. Naturally, due to sunlight and heat, our skin tends to be brown. Our eating habits also add to it.
True, North Indians do happen to be fair-skinned, but only because it is a colder region.
Our very own Yami Gautam, who plays the, ‘Oh, so beautiful and preachy woman’ in the Fair and Lovely Commercial also happens to be from Himachal Pradesh, so naturally, she is fair-skinned.
Hindustan Unilever, the company that owns Fair and Lovely, is a British-Dutch company. This is why the term, “Angrez chale gaye lekin gulaami yahi chhod gaye” is still relevant.
We have been enslaved to the culture so much that even after 72 years of freedom, we haven’t been able to leave behind at least the toxic part of it. I am not against accepting the western culture. But to the level of being ashamed of our own roots? What good has it done?
Even those who made us feel ashamed of our skin tone are into contours and bronzers to make their skin look a little less pale.
I have seen women all my life, applying fairness creams every single day, the only thing I did was keep a check of their changing skin tone. And guess what? Nothing happened. Absolutely, nothing.
There will be people saying that I am just putting up an act of being worried about others. I am fair-skinned, and it really shouldn’t bother me. Trust me, I have heard my relatives saying, “But you know what Bhagyashri? Dark-skinned people are always good at heart.” When I didn’t even say anything about their skin tone, doesn’t make sense.
I have also heard comments on my skin tone worse than the ones I mentioned above. I have been told all my life, and I quote, “If you don’t study hard, the only people who will consider your presence, will be those lecherous animals looking for some feast.” Believe it or not, that’s the last thing any sane human being would want.
If you aren’t satisfied with your skin colour, go on and change it. No one’s gonna stop you. What is going to happen after that? Will you feel more YOU? No. At most, you will feel embarrassed and uncomfortable because, after all those years, sudden changes are difficult to accept.
Even if it is something you have despised all your life.